Why It Feels Like Nothing Is Working (And Why You're Actually Winning)

Have you ever felt like you're doing everything “right” on your spiritual or manifestation journey—reading the books, saying the affirmations, staying positive, meditating daily—and still, things don’t seem to be happening fast enough?

Let me tell you something important: it is happening. Even if you can’t see it yet. You are not doing anything wrong.

You’re on the path. And that path always leads to self-realization—the full remembering of who you really are.

Even if it feels like you’re taking detours, making mistakes, or losing time in jobs, relationships, or choices that don’t seem aligned with your purpose, you are still moving forward. Those “wrong turns” give you perspective. They help you define contrast. They sharpen your clarity. And they prepare you for what’s truly yours.

Sometimes you make choices from survival or fear, like taking a job just to cover bills or staying in a relationship because you're afraid to be alone. And while those choices might seem selfish or off-track, they still serve a purpose in your growth.

But here’s the key: your true alignment—your future self—isn’t selfish in the ego sense. It’s selfish in the divine sense. When you align with your future self, you're aligning with a version of you that contributes to the entire universe. That version of you is not just for your benefit—it benefits everyone you interact with.

When you're fulfilled, that fulfillment spreads. When you're lit up by purpose, everyone around you feels it. The world shifts because you decided to step into who you really are.

So stop beating yourself up for the detours. Even when you feel like you’ve strayed, you’re still being led back to yourself.

You are not here to fix the past. You’re here to create the future.

Yes, shadow work and healing are important—but don’t let your identity get trapped in the trauma. The more you identify with the pain, the more it repeats. Instead, acknowledge it, understand it, and then shift your focus to the life you're creating.

Focus on your desired future. Speak as if it’s done. Feel into it. Act from it. This reprograms your subconscious, which is what truly runs the show. You don’t manifest from conscious thought alone—you manifest from the beliefs you hold deep in your subconscious. And those beliefs are shaped by what you focus on, feel, and consistently affirm.

So be deliberate. Watch your language. Slow down your speech. Say things you actually want to be true. Let your actions and words reflect the reality you are calling in.

And above all, relax.

Most people manifest when they’re relaxed, when they’re not desperate, when they’ve let go of force. So trust that your success is inevitable. Because it is.

You are not here to fail. You are here to live the life you desire. You already have the map—your desires are the compass. You just need to keep moving in that direction.

This entire game of life? It’s rigged in your favor.

So stop trying so hard. Start enjoying the journey. You are divine. You are God expressed as you. And God doesn’t fail.

Own that. Move like that. Trust like that.

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Because the game is rigged. For you. To win.

Peace and abundance always

Dr. Abundant