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What I’ve Manifested: Real Lessons on Health, Love, Money, and Parenting
What I’ve Manifested: Real Lessons on Health, Love, Money, and Parenting

When people ask me, “What makes you an authority in manifestation?” my answer is simple: you are already the authority. You’ve been manifesting your entire life. The difference is that most people never stop to recognize the power they already carry. You create, you attract, you align—whether consciously or unconsciously.
That said, I’ve been asked to share what I’ve manifested in my own life. Not as proof that I’m special, but as an example of what happens when you recognize yourself as pure consciousness, a spark of what many call God, the Universe, or Infinite Intelligence. You’re not separate from it—you are it. And because of that, you are the creator of your life.
Let me walk you through the key areas where manifestation has shaped my life: health, love, money, and parenting.

Health: Manifesting Vitality and Longevity
I’m almost 50 years old, yet I’ve managed to maintain excellent health: no hypertension, no diabetes, no major medical diagnoses, and no surgeries beyond a voluntary vasectomy. Every year, my labs come back clear. That’s manifestation—because health is not just physical, it’s spiritual alignment.
For over 30 years I’ve been vegetarian, and for the last decade, fully vegan. My lifestyle is about more than food—it’s about honoring my body as a vessel for consciousness. Eating plants, juicing daily, and keeping my diet minimally processed is part of embodying peace, clarity, and harmony.
On the physical side, I’ve coached CrossFit, and now I’m a committed long-distance runner. I wake up at 4 a.m. to run, averaging 10 miles three times a week. I’ve run multiple half-marathons and even completed a full marathon, with more scheduled. My weight transformed from 220 lbs at my lowest point to a healthy 180 lbs today.
Health isn’t luck—it’s a manifestation of values, consistency, and alignment.
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Love: Breaking Old Patterns to Attract Alignment
Love has been one of my biggest teachers. I’ve been married “two and a half” times (one was never officially legal) and learned hard lessons about compatibility, compromise, and accountability.
For years, I repeated the same two-year relationship cycle. Each time, I eventually had to accept that we weren’t aligned. The key shift came when I stopped blaming circumstances and acknowledged myself as the common denominator.
I got clear on my standards—spirituality, mindfulness, and especially veganism as a lifestyle. I decided never to compromise on my core values again. Once I embodied that clarity, I attracted a partner who matched me in every way—plant-based, spiritual, health-conscious, and growth-oriented.
We’ve been together four years now, stronger than ever, with open communication and alignment at the core. That’s manifestation at work: not asking for love, but becoming the version of yourself who naturally attracts it.
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Money: Creating Flow Through Vision and Persistence
Money has been an adventurous path. Like many entrepreneurs, I’ve failed more times than I’ve succeeded. But manifestation is about learning from every step.
Some highlights:
Airbnb Success: I built a tiny home on my family’s property and turned it into an Airbnb that brought in steady daily income.
Smoothie Business: I launched a smoothie bar in Florida. Timing (during COVID) and lack of preparation for brick-and-mortar overhead led to challenges, but I learned priceless lessons about resilience and planning.
Publishing & Coaching: Today, my energy is fully invested in Dr. Abundant LLC. I’ve published over 15 books, including The Future Self Frequency, and built courses and coaching programs that generate both income and impact.
Money is manifestation in action—it shows you where you’re aligned and where you need growth. My journey proves that setbacks are not failures; they’re training grounds for greater alignment.
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Parenting: My Greatest Manifestation
Out of everything I’ve manifested, nothing compares to being a parent. I have two children, ages 25 and 13, and raising them has been the most profound manifestation of all. Parenting is the daily practice of love, patience, responsibility, and growth.
At one point, I was a full-time single dad, and that season taught me resilience, sacrifice, and unconditional love. I even made choices like getting a vasectomy, because as much as I love being a parent, I also value the freedom to live intentionally with the children I already have.
Parenting is manifestation at its highest—bringing life into this reality and guiding it with love and consciousness.
Final Thoughts: You Are the Manifestor
Health, love, money, and parenting—each of these areas of my life shows one truth: manifestation is not about asking the universe for something outside yourself. It’s about embodying your divine nature as consciousness and creator.
When you claim your authority, you stop chasing and start aligning. Your health becomes vitality. Your relationships become harmonious. Your money becomes flow. Your parenting becomes legacy.
If you’re ready to embody your Future Self now, explore my book The Future Self Frequency. It’s not theory—it’s a guide to living the life you’ve already been designed to create.
👉 What area of your life are you ready to manifest next—health, love, money, or parenting?
Peace and abundance always
Dr. Abundant