Stop Chasing, Start Attracting: How to Align with Your Dreams and Let Them Come to You

You’ve heard it over and over: “Chase your dreams.” But what if I told you that chasing is exactly what’s pushing them away?

Hi, I’m Dr. Abundant, also known as Peter Abundant—author, teacher, and spiritual guide. I’m here to help you unlock the deeper truth: your dreams are not something to run after. They’re already seeking you. Your job is not to chase, but to match them—by becoming the version of yourself that naturally draws them in.

The Truth About Dreams: They're Meant for You

If you have a deep, persistent desire that you can't ignore—something that keeps returning no matter how many times you push it aside—that’s not a coincidence. That’s your purpose trying to speak to you. It’s not just a wish. It’s a calling.

When you ignore it, that energy doesn’t disappear. It turns into frustration, anxiety, and even depression. But when you listen, when you honor that voice inside, everything begins to shift. That inner calling is your higher consciousness guiding you—your divine self leading the way.

Here’s how you stop chasing and start attracting:

1. Understand the Difference Between Chasing and Attracting

Chasing comes from fear. It’s rooted in lack. It says, “If I don’t hurry, I’ll miss it.” But if something is truly meant for you, why would you need to fight for it?

Attracting comes from alignment. When you know something is yours, you stop rushing and start becoming. You shift your energy to match the life you want. You start being the person who already has it.

Ask yourself: are you acting like someone who already has what they desire? Or someone who feels desperate for it? Shift your identity to the version of you who already owns it—and it will naturally find its way to you.

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2. Get Clear on Your True Desires

Most people think they want something, but they haven’t taken the time to truly understand why. You might say you want a million dollars—but what do you really want? Freedom? Peace? Options?

Desire is deeper than want. It comes from your soul. Take time to write down your desires. Meditate on them. Be specific. Don’t borrow goals from others—define your own vision of joy, success, and fulfillment. That clarity is the foundation of attraction.

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3. Embody the Vision Now

It’s not enough to dream. You must live the dream within. Begin thinking, feeling, and acting like the version of you who already has what you want. Visualize it. Speak it. Walk like it’s already yours.

This is how you become magnetic. You shift your frequency and naturally draw in everything that matches your new identity. You’re not pretending. You’re preparing. You’re aligning your energy with your outcome.

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4. Release the Need to Control the How

You’re not separate from the Universe—you are the Universe expressing itself through your body and mind. But you don’t have to figure everything out. You only need to take the next step.

Let go of the obsession with “how will it happen?” and stay focused on your alignment. Trust your intuition. Follow synchronicities, signs, inner nudges. The Universe is always communicating—you just need to listen.

Do what you can do. The rest will unfold as you move forward.

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5. Take Aligned Action Daily

Spiritual alignment doesn’t mean sitting still. It means taking action from a place of clarity, purpose, and gratitude.

Every step you take should be an expression of the version of you who already has the dream. Write the book, build the business, create the art—not out of desperation, but from inspiration. Honor your physical form and take consistent steps forward, no matter how small.

And do it with gratitude. Be thankful not just for the dream, but for your ability to move toward it. This mindset fuels consistency and brings joy into the process.

Final Thoughts: You Are the Magnet

Stop chasing. Chasing assumes separation. But you are not separate from your dream—you are the dream.

When you allow yourself to align with it, embody it, and take inspired action, your dreams will naturally come to you. They will show up, not because you hunted them down, but because you became the version of you they’ve been looking for.

The truth is: your dreams are already yours. Your only job is to become the version of yourself who’s ready to receive them.

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Peace and abundance, always.

Dr. Abundant