On your journey toward self-realization, one of the most important aspects you need to recognize is the role of the ego and its nature. The ego has a deep yearning, a base instinct, to control everything. This desire stems from fear and a sense of separation. The ego operates from a place of survival, constantly seeking to micromanage every aspect of life, even the things that are beyond your direct control.

In contrast, consciousness knows that it already controls everything. This is not control in the traditional sense of force or manipulation, but rather a peaceful understanding that you determine how you perceive and react to everything happening around you. Consciousness operates from a place of unity, faith, and trust in the natural flow of life.

The Ego's Desperation for Control

The ego's need to control everything stems from a sense of lack. It is an expression of fear and separation, manifesting in behaviors like judgment, shame, and criticism. When you judge others for their beliefs, lifestyle choices, or behaviors, it often reflects a subconscious effort to impose control, driven by the ego's need to feel superior or secure.

Many times, people use belief systems—such as religion—as tools to justify this need for control. By masking egoic judgment under the guise of moral superiority, they reinforce separation rather than unity. However, it is essential to understand that these belief systems are programmed into the subconscious mind and are part of the ego's mechanisms, not the truth of your consciousness.

Consciousness and the Power of Faith

Consciousness, on the other hand, recognizes that everything is already under control because you are in control of yourself. Consciousness is aligned with faith—a deep knowing that everything is unfolding perfectly, even if the path isn't immediately clear. You understand that you may not be able to control external events, but you can control your internal response to them. This creates a sense of peace and flow, allowing you to navigate life with ease and grace.

When you live from a state of consciousness, there is no desperation or need to force outcomes. You realize that simply desiring something is enough, and by making a conscious decision, you align with the flow of life. The action that follows is based on this calm, confident decision-making, which naturally leads to manifestation.

The Harmful Effects of Ego-Driven Control

When you allow the ego to drive your actions, you create resistance. The desire to control everything can be compared to placing obstacles in a river's path. The natural flow of the river is blocked, creating dams and floods, which result in unnecessary turmoil. This resistance slows down your progress and causes frustration because the ego is attempting to manipulate things it cannot change.

On the other hand, when you surrender the need to control every aspect of life and trust in the natural flow of consciousness, you move effortlessly toward your desires. Consciousness, like a river, will naturally guide you to where you need to be. Even when life presents challenges or setbacks, those who live from a state of consciousness know that these are merely part of the journey and that everything is working in their favor.

Becoming the Observer

To break free from the ego's control, you must practice mindfulness and meditation. These tools help you become the observer of your thoughts and emotions, rather than being controlled by them. Recognize that your thoughts and emotions are fleeting—they change constantly, just as the flow of a river changes its course.

By observing your thoughts without attachment, you begin to identify with the true self—consciousness—and not the ever-changing expressions of the ego. This detachment gives you the freedom to choose how to respond to life’s circumstances, rather than reacting impulsively from a place of fear or control.

Letting Go to Gain Control

Ironically, the more you let go of the need to control, the more you actually gain control over your life. When you surrender to the natural flow of consciousness, you allow the universe to work in harmony with your desires. Faith, trust, and acceptance replace the ego's need to force outcomes, and as a result, your manifestations unfold effortlessly.

This is the ultimate power—knowing that you are already in control by being aligned with consciousness. You don't need to manipulate every detail; instead, you need to trust in the process, have faith in your desires, and take inspired action without fear or desperation.

Final Thoughts

As you move forward on your journey of self-realization, remember that the desire to control comes from the ego. Consciousness, on the other hand, is where your true power lies. By surrendering the need to control and aligning with the natural flow of life, you will find that everything you desire is already within reach.

Thank you for joining me on this journey. For more insights and techniques to help you become a conscious creator, I invite you to subscribe to my daily newsletter and consider joining my Conscious Creator Circle, a paid membership that offers coaching, weekly calls, and practical tools to help you manifest the reality you desire.

Peace and abundance always,

Dr. Abundant

Power Technique: The "Observe and Release" Method

Objective:

Master the ability to let go of control by shifting from ego-driven reactions to conscious observation and trust.

Steps:

1. Pause and Breathe:

When you feel the urge to control a situation, stop and take 3 deep, slow breaths. This calms the ego's need to react and centers you in the present moment.

2. Observe Your Thoughts:

Notice the thoughts that arise. Ask yourself, “Is this coming from fear or faith?” If it’s fear, recognize it as the ego's desire to control.

3. Release Judgment:

Say to yourself, “I release the need to control this.” Visualize your thoughts as clouds passing by. Let them float away without attachment.

4. Affirm Trust:

Close your eyes and silently repeat, "I trust my consciousness to guide me effortlessly." This helps realign with your inner knowing.

5. Take Aligned Action:

From this calm, conscious state, ask, “What feels right in this moment?” Take the next step based on inspiration, not desperation.

Practice Daily:

Commit to using this technique whenever the desire to control arises. With repetition, you’ll naturally shift into trusting the flow of consciousness.